For a front-end, gaining-in- knowledge WordPress convert, I learned a lot at WordCamp. I appreciated Jeremy Wright’s keynote address about social media.  Jeremy talked about some of the “failures” of social media – but really he was pointing out how we have cheapened social media.  He mentioned

Jeremy Wright Keynote WCTO2010 flickr.com/photos/blucier

• SPAM problems – spamming is counter to SOCIAL media
• people having a mob mentality (we’re too influenced by who is saying what)
• the rise in Twitter Interns and how this changes social media from SOCIAL media to social MEDIA – we put the emphasis on the wrong idea
• An entitlement mentality – sometimes we’re just looking for the next handout
• Twitter Followership – we are still working for numbers – we’ve forgotten about the social part

Jeremy suggested some ways that we can filter all the noise so that we can focus on social media basics.

1. If someone is talking all the time, they aren’t listening.
2. Social media is all about  ‘how can I help’
3. Listen first, then get involved when it makes sense (then exchange business cards)

Then he gave some great SOCIAL media reminders:

1. Listen more than you talk – don’t expect to get until you give
2. No boasting – don’t paint the old as new
3. Don’t steal – give credit to people (whether it is photos, text, ideas… anything)

I may have missed some of his other really important points.  But I have to say that I didn’t miss his main point.  I can’t stop other people from cheapening social media and turning it into “what can I get from it”.  But I can look at my own social behaviour and ask myself  “Am I making social media into social MEDIA or am I keeping it as SOCIAL media?”

On a more personal note, Jeremy and several other speakers made a similar important point for me.  For WP newbies (and I kind of consider myself one of them), he stressed that we should just get started blogging … don’t step back and develop some big strategy – find something you enjoy – figure out what you want to say and then start saying it – work on strategy later.

I heard this so many times this weekend that I couldn’t help but think of the adage that when the student is ready, the teacher shows up (or something like that).  So I am going to relax, blog about what jazzes me instead of trying to write blogs about what I think I should be writing about.

Thanks Jeremy for bringing me (us) back to SOCIAL media basics and thanks for speaking to me directly (even though we didn’t even meet f2f!).